December 2011
2 posts
ELÄMISEN INTOHIMO
Olen tavannut todella paljon ihmisiä elämäni varrella. Jotkut ovat jättäneet minuun myönteisen lähtemättömän jäljen, ja olen halunnut oppia soveltamaan heidän elämänasennettaan omaan elämääni. Ihailemissani ihmisissä olen havainnut intohimoisen suhteen elämään kaikkineen.
En nyt puhu sellaisista ihmisistä, jotka ovat opetelleet puhetekniikan, jonka avulla he osaavat aina vastata: ”Kiitos...
Wishing for a bigger frying pan?
I would say I have met many people during my life from almost all corners of the world. Some have left a positive, permanent mark on me and I’ve wanted to learn to adapt their life attitude to my life. In the people I admire I’ve observed relating passionately to life and all it contains.
Now, I’m not talking about people who have learned a speaking technique, by which they can always answer,...
August 2011
1 post
Entropy is an immensely powerful inner friction!
When a person becomes accountable to himself, he has to take a stance on entropy. In common language we could call this laziness. It may be the most severe original sin. In the story of Adam and Eve one could wonder why they didn’t bother to ask God for the reason they weren’t allowed to eat from the tree before they took a bite. Were they afraid of their Creator? It seems unlikely. They had, as...
July 2011
1 post
Choices
When something happens or is happening, your brain will ask you:
1. What does this mean (first and foremost to me)?
2. How should I act in this situation?
3. What will the future look like if I act this way?
4. Will the decision / choice bring me pleasure or pain?
This process occurs so quickly; you usually don’t have time to activate your conscious mind to help in the decision-making....
April 2011
1 post
THE SUBCONCIOUS
To make all of our choices, we use both our conscious mind and our subconscious. According to scientists our conscious mind is in comparison to our subconscious mind as big as the tennis ball is compared to an elephant. The subconscious is like a gigantic hard disk and the conscious mind like a processor that spins one or two programs at a time. Behind every choice there is a feeling. The mind...
March 2011
1 post
THINKING PATTERNS
In 1993 around 4000 people from 100 different countries gathered in Washington for a specific scientific research. They wanted to study, whether collective thinking could have a positive effect on a city’s criminal activity – and cause it to decline. Through this test it was scientifically proven, during the period the positive thinking was taking place, crime rates declined 25%. Before the study...
January 2011
1 post
Rakkaus.
Ihmisen elämän todellinen arvo on siinä, mitä hän muille merkitsee. Se on luonnon laki. Jos kuvittelen merkitseväni muille enemmän kuin todelliset hedelmäni kertovat, elän valheessa. Puu tunnetaan aina hedelmistään. Jos kuviteltu kasvuni ei näy muille, täytyy katsoa peiliin entistä tarkemmin. Mitä tehtävää varten olen maailmaan tullut? Olenko tullut saamaan vai antamaan? Miten voisin elää...
December 2010
1 post
Beliefs form Your life!
In the Middle Ages enlightened circles started using metallic forks as cutlery. The forks were forged out of either iron or silver. At first they were two-edged. The tale tells us the forks were soon ostracized because they were believed to be tools of the devil. The belief was based on the fact, when forks were beginning to be widely used, people started dying from poisonings or inflammations...
October 2010
3 posts
Hyveet
Onko ihmislapsi hyvä syntyessään maailmaan? Tai olisiko kysymys parempi kun sen esittää kuinka hyvä ihminen on syntyessään maailmaan? Olen miettinyt tätä jonkun verran ja tämä on osoittautunut hyväksi keskustelun aiheeksi valmennuksissa. Pohdinta vie useimmiten toteamaan, että ihminen joutuu valitsemaan hyvän.
Hyvä tai hyveet eivät tule automaattisesti. Jos ajattelee pientä lasta, on aika...
ENVY
The nest of envy is located in the ego of a human being. With ego, we usually mean a kind of mechanism, assigned to keep the person together, to preserve the self as whole. Person comes from the Greek word persona and means the masks that were used in front of the face in antique Greek theatrical performances. Ego doesn’t emerge before we need to use our person in relation to other...
Muutosjohtamisessa kannattaa ottaa käyttöön aivot!
Kun mikä tahansa tiimi kokoontuu, aivojen mielestä on aina kysymys ”vain” ihan tavallisesta laumakohtaamisesta. Riippumatta siitä, mitä aihealueita kokouksessa käsitellään ja missä hierarkian tasolla ollaan, aivojen neurologiset ja fysiologiset reaktiot kohtaamisen aikana riippuvat enimmäkseen sosiaalisen viitekehyksen tulkinnasta. Tiimin eri jäsenten aivot tuottavat jokaiseen eri tilanteeseen...
September 2010
5 posts
EMPATHY
Doesn’t it feel nice and secure to be with a person, who understands how you feel? When you get the feeling, that another person looks at the world through the same window as you, something inside of you gets thrilled. You get a warm, good feeling, and you want to spend even more time with that kind of person. What I am aiming for here is of course the much spoken world of empathy, sympathy...
THE TRANSMISSION OF FEELINGS
We affect each other’s feelings. It happens all the time, even in silence. Feelings are transmitted from one person to another in the same way as viruses. We are all in the exchange of feelings. It doesn’t require any certain volition. We constantly collect feelings into our own bank through observation. We are influenced by others and we in turn influence others. The strongest...
Energy flows inside out
If your emotional energy suddenly seems to disappear, try to ask yourself WHAT is draining you energy (not WHO). If you think it is a person, it is merely a projection of yourself. If you for example happen to be envious to somebody, the person in question is not really important. The important dimension is your minds “shadow”side, that makes the projection. In fact, that person is...
Who Are You Really?
Your relationship with yourself
Without me I can’t be in relationship with anything. At the start and end of all things, the human being is always closest to himself. Although me is not necessarily the beginning and source of everything, we always see the world through our own window. We don’t see the world as it truly is, but rather as we want it to be. By knowing ourselves we...
August 2010
3 posts
Seek And You Shall Find
When being exposed to different situations, circumstances and stimulus, the human brain always needs to choose from one of two interpretations. The new situation brings up either a “toward” or “against” response. A toward response means that the brain gives us “permission” to choose in that positively interpreted direction.
The expectation of a positive reward...
From Good Intentions to Real Results
Good results and productivity are not an outcome of randomness or a product of coincidences. It is a result of decisions! Good results do rarely show up simply by working hard, although it is a good and necessary ingredient. Results will get better if and when we do something smarter, not harder. The question is; are we really getting forward with our lives or just running on our places. Running...